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故事療癒Story Telling

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庖丁解牛
故事提醒
mind-set
All things work together for good!

一切都是最好的安排!
Everything Is Under Best Arrangement!

​There once lived a king(國王) who had a very wise adviser(宰相). No matter what happens he will say "This is the best arrangement"(一切都是最好的安排)

從前有一個國家, 國王最喜歡與宰相喜歡出門打獵。宰相平日最他最常掛在嘴邊的一句話就是「一切都是最好的安排」。
   有一次,國王興高采烈的到大草原打獵, 國王很開心,他看到一隻花豹躺在地上許久都毫無動靜, 一時失去戒心, 居然在隨從尚未趕上時,就下馬檢視花豹。 誰想到,花豹就是在等待這一瞬間,使出最後的力氣, 突然跳起來向國王撲過來。國王被要斷一隻小指。 

     回宮以後, 宰相知道了這事後,一邊舉酒敬國王,一邊微笑說:「大王啊!少了一小塊肉總比少了一條命來得好吧! 想開一點,一切都是最好的安排!」   國王一聽,國王勃然大怒,先把宰相抓去關起來!」 宰相回頭對他一笑,說:「這也是最好的安排!」 
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   過了一個月,國王養好傷,就自己獨自出遊了。誤闖到一個食人族,國王被抓當祭品,祭品需是「完美」的象徵,所以,祭祀的牲品醜一點、黑一點、矮一點都沒有關係, 就是不能殘缺。 就在這時,大祭司終於發現國王的左手小指頭少了小半截, 他忍不住咬牙切齒咒罵了半天,忍痛下令說: 把這個廢物趕走,另外再找一個!」    
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     脫困的國王大喜若狂,飛奔回宮,立刻叫人釋放宰相, 在御花園設宴,為自己保住一命、也為宰相重獲自由而慶祝。 國王一邊向宰相敬酒說:「愛卿啊!你說的真是一點也不錯,果然,一切都是最好的安排!如果不是被花豹咬一口,今天連命都沒了。」 

過了一會兒,國王忽然問宰相說: 「寡人救回一命,固然是『一切都是最好的安排』,可是你無緣無故在監獄蹲了一個月,這又怎麼說呢?」 
宰相慢條斯理喝下一口酒,才說:「大王!您將我關在監獄?,確實也是最好的安排啊!」他饒富深意看了國王一眼,舉杯說:「您想想看,如果我不是在監獄?,那麼陪伴您微服私巡的人,不是我還會有誰呢?等到蠻人發現國王不適合拿來祭祀滿月女神時,誰會被丟進大鍋爐中烹煮呢? 不是我還有誰呢?所以,我要為大王將我關進監獄而向您敬酒,您也救了我一命啊!」 國王忍不住哈哈大笑,朗聲說: 

    「乾杯吧!果然沒錯,一切都是最好的安排!」 

​Once upon a time, the king liked to go out to hunt with the prime minister. One of the most common words of the prime minister on weekdays is "everything is the best arrangement."

   Once, the king was happily hunting in the prairie. The king was very happy. He saw a leopard lying on the ground for a long time without any movement. He lost his wariness for a moment. When the entourage had not caught up, he went down to examine the leopard. Who thought that the leopard was waiting for this moment, giving up the last strength, and suddenly jumped up and rushed over to the king. The king was about to break a little finger.

     After returning to the palace, after the prime minister knew about this, he raised the wine and respected the king, and smiled and said, "Great king! It’s better to have a small piece of meat than to lose one life! To open a little, everything is the best. Arrange!" When the king heard it, the king was furious and first seized the prime minister and locked it up! The prime minister turned back and smiled at him and said, "This is also the best arrangement!"
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   After a month, the king raised his wounds and traveled alone. Mistaken into a cannibal, the king was arrested as a sacrifice, and the sacrifice must be a symbol of "perfection." Therefore, it is irrelevant that the sacrifice of the sacrifice is ugly, black, and short. At this moment, the high priest finally found that the king's left hand had a small half of the little finger. He couldn't help but gnash his teeth and cursed for a long time. He reluctantly ordered to drive the waste away and find another one! "
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     The ridiculous king was so overjoyed that he flew back to the palace and immediately released the prime minister. He hosted a banquet in the Imperial Garden to save his life and celebrate the regaining freedom of the prime minister. The king toasted to the prime minister and said, "Love Qing! You are really good at all. Sure enough, everything is the best arrangement! If you are not bitten by a leopard, you will not have a life today."

After a while, the king suddenly asked the prime minister: "The widows save a life, although "everything is the best arrangement", but you have been in prison for a month without any reason, what do you say?"
The prime minister slowly took a drink and said, "Da Wang! You shut me in jail? It is indeed the best arrangement!" He looked at the king with great interest and said: "If you think about it, if you think about it, I am not in prison? Then, who will accompany you on the private tour, isn't I still there? When the barbarians find that the king is not suitable for the goddess of the full moon, who will be thrown into the big boiler to cook? Who else? So, I have toast you for the king to put me in jail, and you saved my life!” The king couldn’t help but laugh and said:

    "Cheers! It's true, everything is the best arrangement!"
  
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